Monthly at the Center 5:00 - 7:00 - Sliding scale $7 - 0

May 15, 2011 - Presenters : Sara and Ashley

Topic : Double Blow Jobs!

What's better then a blowjob? A double blow job! Join Sara and Ashley, the famous blowjob twins, in learning positions, techniques and several fun skills for successful double blowjobs. The workshop will also review negotiating, safer sex supplies as well as things to consider when giving or receiving a blow job from two people. Yes, this workshop will feature a demo! If you come packing and there is time, you might get double blown!

Sara Vibes, the reigning International Ms. Leather, was born and raised in New York City. She is a black, polyamorous, queer, kinky, dandy top heavy princess. Vibes is a musician, writer, sex blogger and educator in training and a star fucker. She was abandoned in a hospital in the Bronx in the late 80's weighing under two pounds and addicted to crack. She was adopted by a white Jewish women with cerebral palsy from Brooklyn and a black Christian man from Jersey with spina bifida who both passed before she was nine. Vibes' mother was a social worker and sex therapist who specialized in sex and disability. Her book selections encouraged and influenced Vibes exploration into sex and sexuality. Vibes is an active member in BDSM and LGBT communities in New York City and beyond. She is a founding member of Nina Hartley's SexWise.me, a sex-positive online community, and worked as a curator and contributor of SexWise Magazine. Vibes has been interviewed by Nerve magazine and appeared on Reid Mihalko's "Queer, Poly, & Under 30" panel at Dr. Carol Queen's Center for Sex and Culture in San Francisco. She has taught with her partner Indigo at Playhouse in Baltimore and recently hosted "Sexxy Game Night" at Dark Odyssey: Winter Fire. She will also be a contributor to Perverts of Color Anthology. Vibes will be traveling to kink and poly events throughout the year and documenting her experiences on her blog and on her column on Fearless Press, an online magazine on sexuality, relationships, kink and more. Her mission is to make sex education accessible to everyone. She hopes to rip the veil off of the shame surrounding sex and sexuality through self love and exploration with people that care about each other.

Ashley aka Indigo is a black poly kinky feminist queer dyke; poet, playwright, non-fiction writer and teaching artist. She also identifies as a purple cat woman and pageant mom/sash widow, as her partner Sara Vibes is International Ms. Leather 2011. She earned a BA in Multicultural Education and Theater from Hampshire College, a hippy school in Amherst, Massachusetts. Indigo runs a blog called Indigo's Theory at www.indigostheory.wordpress.com about her journey through sexuality, Polyamory and womanhood. She writes a column on Polyamory for Fearless Press, an online magazine about relationships and sexuality (www.fearlesspress.com). She will also be a featured writer in "Perverts of Color" alongside her partner. Indigo works as a program assistant, sex educator and freelance writing. She is currently working on her memoir and an online writing project called Brown Girl Love at www.browngirllove.com. She lives in the Village with her partner and their four cats.

June 18, 2011 (Third SATURDAY) - Presenter : Don

Topic : Choking and Breath Play

Surrendering the ability to breathe. Fighting for the last scraps of available air. Controlling someone's oxygen supply to the point of unconsciousness. Predicaments that feel like they really could choke the life out of you. Gags, plastic bags, gas masks, and nooses. For those willing to take the risk, breath play is an amazing and intense ride. For others, it is a reckless and dangerous kink. Let's talk about it. This class will be a lecture and demonstration of various techniques of air and breath control, as well as carotid artery restriction. Safety techniques and health concerns will be discussed in depth. There will be short demos throughout.

Don (not that Don) was raised to be straight, but grew out of that and is now queer, queer, queer. He served over 20 years in the Army, which has provided some of the background and skills for his favorite types of play. The majority, however, comes from time spent playing with his leather family. He enjoys long walks on the beach, 80's music, and burying the living. He does not like writing about himself in the third person.

 
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